There are plenty of things that you can do to put a spark back into your sexiness and to show your lover that you need to feel the passion that you deserve.
Think sexy
One of the most important things to remember is that sex does not have to start the minute the lights go off.
I suggest that you think of sex like a mindset. If you feel sexy, your body will be more apt to be open to sexual and intimate experiences. Positive people that are comfortable with their body often exude sexuality. If you have this positive sexual aura about yourself, you feel and think sexier and you tend to enjoy sex more.
This is wonderful for you because sex has so many positive benefits. These benefits include the chance to burn some calories, lower depression, and relax your body. Pain management problems are often alleviated to some extent thanks to regular sex, as well (depending on the pain issue you have).
So, if you are tired of feeling like you are in a slump and want to make yourself feel sexier, consider some of the following tips. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain (well, everything meaning good, pleasing sex, that is).
I suggest that you think of sex like a mindset. If you feel sexy, your body will be more apt to be open to sexual and intimate experiences. Positive people that are comfortable with their body often exude sexuality. If you have this positive sexual aura about yourself, you feel and think sexier and you tend to enjoy sex more.
This is wonderful for you because sex has so many positive benefits. These benefits include the chance to burn some calories, lower depression, and relax your body. Pain management problems are often alleviated to some extent thanks to regular sex, as well (depending on the pain issue you have).
So, if you are tired of feeling like you are in a slump and want to make yourself feel sexier, consider some of the following tips. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain (well, everything meaning good, pleasing sex, that is).
Take Some “Me” Time
As a woman and/or a mother, you might find a hundred reasons in a day why you need to do something for other people. Your husband/boyfriend needs something, your kids need something, and your boss needs something.
But what about you? If you are run ragged taking care of everyone else and your day starts and ends this way, you are never going to find the sexy inner you. Find something that interests you and make sure that you take time to do it often.
But what about you? If you are run ragged taking care of everyone else and your day starts and ends this way, you are never going to find the sexy inner you. Find something that interests you and make sure that you take time to do it often.
Don’t Ignore the Small Feminine Things
If you don’t appreciate your body, you will not feel sexy. Spend a few extra minutes painting your toenails and fingernails, buy that perfume that has a soft, sensual smell, and lounge in a bubble bath whenever you have time.
Dress to Feel Sexy
Wear silk and satin, even if it’s under your clothes. Even if no one else knows you are wearing it, you will know. Feeling the smooth material on your skin will do wonders for you. Being that these materials are associated with sensuality and sexiness, in some small way you will open your mood to a sexier outlook. When you dress well and do your hair, you begin to feel better about yourself and how you look. Make yourself pretty and others will notice and comment, as well.
Open Yourself to Intimacy
Ask your lover what they find attractive in you. Often you will realize that your lover sees something in you that maybe you missed. If you want to be inventive, have them show you without words. You might end up with a pleasing full body massage to show that he loves every inch of you.
Have Sex with the Lights On
Sex is as natural as you are. It is important to realize that no matter what you look like in your present form; you are beautiful in that natural way. You, as a person, are far more dynamic than just being determined by your physical form.
Having sex with the lights on allows you to see the intensity of your lovemaking rather than just feeling the intensity. If you want to feel sexy and to open yourself to positive and intimate experiences, you need to see yourself in that positive light. It may be shocking and different for you the first time you do it, but you may end up seeing the true beauty in your sexual experiences -- and that will be better for you than just about anything else you could do.
Having sex with the lights on allows you to see the intensity of your lovemaking rather than just feeling the intensity. If you want to feel sexy and to open yourself to positive and intimate experiences, you need to see yourself in that positive light. It may be shocking and different for you the first time you do it, but you may end up seeing the true beauty in your sexual experiences -- and that will be better for you than just about anything else you could do.
